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The 8 Chillest Places in Asia

11/17/2014 by Kristin Addis 54 Comments

When you imagine the most peaceful place you’ve ever been, what comes to mind?

I’ve been to places where, whether it’s because of a hippie vibe, a genuine feeling of peace, or just the amazing people around me (usually all three), it just feels chill, and I feel like I could stay there forever.

I came to realize over time that these are the places I like the most. They’re usually small communities, very focused on the preservation and appreciation of nature, and the general feeling is one of calm. Here are the best of what I’ve discovered so far:

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  • Ella, Sri Lanka
  • Yubeng, China
  • Pai, Thailand
  • Otres Beach, Cambodia
  • Don Det, Laos
  • Dali, China
  • Tonsai Beach, Thailand
  • Phong Nha Ke Bang, Vietnam

Ella, Sri Lanka

chillest places in asia
Oh yes, take the train

Even the name, Ella, sounds all magical and beautiful. In Ella, plenty of bars and restaurants have lounge lofts with bean bags, coffee stops, and your typical corner roti man serving up meals for under a dollar. The train ride to or from this beautiful town is breathtaking as well (get the spot in the doorway!).

Ella itself is full of waterfalls, wonderful hiking, and is bordered by tea plantations on both sides. I’ve said it before and will say it again: it’s some sort of unspoken rule that anywhere with tea plantations will and must be beautiful.

Yubeng, China

chillest places in asia
Building stupas in Yubeng

Yubeng is located in the far west of China, right up against Tibet in Yunnan province. It’s high in the mountains and from the nearest city – Deqen – can only be reached via 15km trek by foot or mule. In Yubeng the chickens, donkeys, and pigs run around anywhere they want, the locals dress brightly, and the air is crisp and clean.

It’s a sacred area and all along the trail to Yubeng prayer flags are strung along the trees. I’ve never been anywhere as peaceful in my life. The white snow, the tall peaks, the running water, the steaming chicken hot pot, the ever-present silence and reflection, and the lovely people still give me a feeling of grace and peace when I think of it.

Pai, Thailand

chillest places in asia
Hanging out in Pai

I talk about Pai all the time. In life, in this blog, in my dreams. I just love it there and it feels like such a hippie paradise. I could get stuck listening to reggae, eating amazing inventive eggs benedict at Boomelicious and play with fire at the Circus School all day.

I could visit the Land Split, swim in the waterfalls, and drink iced coffees all day as well, and usually do some combination of all of the aforementioned in the span of just one afternoon. The thought has often crossed my mind to take up a longer term residence there at some point.

Otres Beach, Cambodia

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Just staring at this all day is enough to raise the chill-meter x 1000

Speaking of hippie paradises, Otres Beach in Cambodia might be the winner, at least when I was there a little over two years ago.

Most visitors who spend a while there have the same routine: wake up, swim, have some muesli and green tea, buy a mixed bag of small and sweet banana, mango and pineapple from the fruit lady, have a few Anchor beers, swim, consider BBQ or a bonfire, rinse, repeat. Why not? It’s paradise incarnate with its white sand beaches and perfect clear blue water.

Don Det, Laos

chillest places in asia
If only you could see the double rainbow!

Don Det is the first place I’ve ever seen a double rainbow. I was floating down the Mekong river in an inner tube and right before me, stretching from one bank to the other, was the most perfect double rainbow at the most perfect time that it could have appeared.

It’s easy to laze away in Don Det, reading, swaying in a hammock, riding a bike around, and just existing in that river world.

Dali, China

chillest places in asia
Even the heavens agree, Dali’s chill

I didn’t expect to see hippies in China, and then I arrived in Dali.

Dali has everything from the old man still living in a traditional house, wearing traditional clothing, growing a Full Manchu and a smoking long-stem pipe, to the dreadlocked rasta Chinese guy in his early 30s selling handmade bracelets on the steps of the main street.

Dali is relaxed, it sits on a beautiful lake, and Chinese and Western tourists both absolutely love it.

Tonsai Beach, Thailand

chillest places in asia
I <3 you, Tonsai

Tonsai beach, located off of Krabi and not to be confused with the Tonsai on Koh Phi Phi, is gorgeous. Discovered by accident when I was entranced by the look of Tonsai on my way to Railay (I asked the boat man to take me back to Tonsai once I’d seen it, please and thank you), I’ve returned and just love the chill vibe and beautiful surroundings.

Tonsai is also an active place, full of kayakers, divers, rock climbers, fire dancers, and slack-line walkers. It’s the perfect place to pick up a new skill, or to just laze around by the beach and read books.

Phong Nha Ke Bang, Vietnam

chillest places in asia
Lovely Phong Nha

This was my favorite part of Vietnam because the locals flashed peace signs at me as I rode by on my motorbike, families watched fascinated and waved from their porches, and an old lady sat on my bike with me, stroked my face, and then rested for a while as we just sat there in relaxed silence. It was all quite strange and amazing.

There’s really only one road through the town and not a whole lot of noise or business around. This makes for a really peaceful, agricultural, and naturally beautiful place. I definitely felt calm and in my natural element while at Phong Nha.

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Those are my personal favorites, but there are an infinite number of chill places to find, no doubt, and what is chill is usually a bit undiscovered, so the chillness level does change often. Regardless, when I look back on my travels, these are the places I tended to enjoy the most and to find the most like-minded people. Coincidentally they are all naturally beautiful.

What would you add to the list? I’m always on the hunt for the next peaceful, quiet, mellow destination.

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Kristin Addis is the founder and CEO of Be My Travel Muse, a resource for female travelers all around the world since 2012. She's traveled solo to over 65 countries and has brought over 150 women on her all-female adventure tours from Botswana to the Alaskan tundra.

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  1. Gilles Barbier says

    11/17/2014 at 6:51 am

    Hi Kristin,
    First thanks for the list: after 7 years, I will be back in Southeast Asia in a few days for 4 months, and 2 of the places you list are actually on my list (never been there before): Phong Nha Ke Bang & Otres Beach. I was actually scared Otres Beach would be awfully touristy!
    In a completely different way, the last place I found really relaxing and inviting to slow down in Asia was Turtuk, in the Nubra Valley in Ladakh.
    Cheers
    Gilles

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/17/2014 at 6:56 am

      It’s possible it has become more touristy since I was last there – in fact I’m sure it is. If you really want something more remote you can head to Rabbit island off of Kep in Cambodia. They didn’t actually have running water or even electricity when I was last there, so I’m guessing things may have upgraded slightly since then. Would love to hear your thoughts after you go to Otres!

      Reply
      • Gilles Barbier says

        11/17/2014 at 7:06 am

        Thanks Kristin!
        I will let you know and of course write about it.
        I am concerned about the masses especially since I will be there over Xmas.
        Cheers
        Gilles

        Reply
  2. Anonymous says

    11/17/2014 at 7:14 am

    Please add the name of each country.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/17/2014 at 8:00 am

      The name of each country is listed right next to the name of the city. Ella is in Sri Lanka, Pai is in Thailand, etc.

      Reply
  3. Kristin says

    11/17/2014 at 10:02 am

    Hoi An is very pretty. I’ve heard great things about Khao Sok!

    Reply
  4. Amanda says

    11/17/2014 at 11:20 am

    Otres Beach was definitely a highlight of my Asia trip. I met some awesome people there and we enjoyed low key days on the beautiful beach and then BBQ and (50 cent) beers after the sun set. Perfect. I also really liked Don Det and Pai so it seems like we have similar tastes. I’ll have to check out the rest the next time I’m in Asia.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/18/2014 at 7:35 am

      I think the beach BBQ I had on Otres was the best I’ve ever had. The meat was so good and we ate it all with our hands. I just love eating with my hands, to be perfectly honest.

      Reply
  5. Grainne says

    11/17/2014 at 4:07 pm

    I would also add Chitwan in Nepal and also Battambang in Cambodia. Unbelievable laid back and peaceful for a small city!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/18/2014 at 7:34 am

      Thanks! I should check those out as I haven’t been to either one.

      Reply
  6. lorenzo says

    11/17/2014 at 10:50 pm

    “It just feels chill” – Ok, you couldn’t have said it better. Great suggestions and i love the photos (hanging out in Pai is my favourite).

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/18/2014 at 7:33 am

      Haha, it’s a feeling, you know?

      Reply
  7. Kristin says

    11/18/2014 at 7:34 am

    Awesome! If you hit any of these I think you’ll be pleased with the vibes.

    Reply
  8. Silvia says

    11/18/2014 at 7:37 am

    These place are all really nice, but if you reaaaally want to chill out I’d say head to Central Asia! Like Khorog in Tajikistan, or Arslanbob in Kyrgyzstan. So laid back!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/18/2014 at 7:39 am

      So many people have suggested that lately and I’ve heard great things. They’re on the list now.

      Reply
  9. Kaleena's Kaleidoscope says

    11/18/2014 at 8:36 pm

    Aahhh I am ALL about the chill places! Def adding these to my list for my RTW next year. Thank you! 🙂

    Reply
  10. Charlie says

    11/19/2014 at 5:00 am

    Nothing better than a great chill place! It’s now my mission to visit as many of these places as I can on my trip to Asia next year. Thanks for sharing them!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/19/2014 at 9:10 am

      That’s awesome! Let me know how it goes please!

      Reply
  11. Alana - Paper Planes says

    11/19/2014 at 11:48 am

    Dali is the only place I really want to visit in China…met a couple who owns a hotel there and it just sounds magical

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/20/2014 at 4:28 am

      There are so many other amazing places in China worth visiting as well, especially around Dali. Let me know if you ever make it out there!

      Reply
  12. Ray says

    11/21/2014 at 11:16 pm

    Khao Sok in Thailand was incredible.. I had to return a few months later! I will go back as well. I agree with Don det, so relaxed. Great post, gives me some ideas for the future

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/22/2014 at 4:22 am

      Thanks for letting me know about Khao Sok. I want to check it out!

      Reply
  13. Anonymous says

    11/27/2014 at 11:16 am

    Hi you should try Easter island its Amazing i sat at the higest point on the island, then it hit me there is No one higher than me for 3500km wow ..

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/28/2014 at 6:22 am

      That’s very cool!

      Reply
  14. Crystal says

    11/30/2014 at 3:40 pm

    Her Kristin,
    This is a real cool post. I liked it so much I reposted on my blogs facebook page 🙂 I thought I would have been to more but have only been to 3 places on this list! I think Tonsai Beach was my favourite chillest place thus far! A couple of cool chill places in India would be McLeod Ganj (gorgeous tibetan town in the foot of the Himalayas), Palolem Beach in Goa ($3 private beachfront cananas – yes please!) and Jaisalmer in Rajasthan (go and stay in a castle for a few days eating amazing foods while watching the sun set from the roof of the castle). Have you been to any of these?

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/30/2014 at 4:15 pm

      Awesome, thank you! Thanks so much for giving me India tips! I am really looking forward to the time when I take off for an extended trip through there.

      Reply
  15. Sand In My Suitcase says

    12/04/2014 at 11:02 pm

    Yes, Ella does sound very pretty and serene… And Pai? We’ve not heard of that before in Thailand. Another chill spot is Gili Air (one of the Gili islands off Lombok, Indonesia) – but don’t go to neighboring Gili T if you’re looking for “chill” as that’s quite a party island! We loved Koh Lanta in Thailand – found it very restful. But we hear a bridge is being built to connect it to Krabi, so rumour has it that the island may not stay so peaceful for long…

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      12/05/2014 at 1:41 am

      I went to Gili T for a week right at the end of my first 10 months in SEA and have to say I really enjoyed it! I know it’s a party place but better for a solo traveler. I think Gili Air would have been awesome with a partner but my friend came back and said solo it was a little depressing.

      You haven’t heard of Pai?! I’m obsessed with Pai! Go forth and visit!

      Reply
  16. Peter says

    01/02/2015 at 4:25 am

    Thanks Kristin for exploring some best places of Asia through this post.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      01/02/2015 at 5:59 am

      Thanks for reading 🙂

      Reply
  17. David says

    01/05/2015 at 3:14 pm

    Great post! I would love to check out Don Det, Laos. It seems like a quieter version of Vang Vieng. You’re website is pretty amazing. Hope my blog can be half as good as yours one day.

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      01/05/2015 at 4:05 pm

      That’s really kind of you, David! I would say you could be right assuming Don Det is like a quieter version of Vang Vieng. It’s still its own thing and its own place but both are worth checking out. Both are beautiful.

      Reply
  18. Jordan says

    01/10/2015 at 10:03 am

    Hi Kristin,
    I am headed to Southeast Asia in a few months but will only be able to stay for a little over a month. I am starting in Thailand and ending in Bali with a final night in Singapore. I am hoping to be efficient and get to see parts of Vietnam, Cambodia, and Malaysia as well. Any suggestions on how to make the most of your time while backpacking and ensure you get to see everything on your list? (Not your list specifically, just a list in general :-)) Any advice would be awesome!
    Thanks,
    Jordan

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      01/12/2015 at 3:30 am

      You’re a bit limited with that timeframe and I’m sure you don’t want to burn yourself out with rapid movement, so I’d suggest seeing Angkor Wat in Cambodia, checking out an island such as Perhentian or Tioman in Malaysia, and exploring Hanoi and the surrounding areas in Vietnam, as those were the highlights for me and I bet you’d be pretty happy with those spots.

      Reply
  19. Kristin says

    01/12/2015 at 3:21 am

    So glad to hear it’s still good because I would like to return in May 🙂

    Reply
  20. Ryan says

    01/30/2015 at 9:32 pm

    Gah! I miss Pai so much and it was by far my favorite place in Thailand to visit. The hammocks, the sunsets, the night market, and the freakin’ food! I never made it to Tonsai but I’ll have to hit that next time I’m in Thailand. I feel like we are very alike in places we love to chill, so when I do finally get to Sri Lanka and China and the like, I’ll make it a point to check these out!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/01/2015 at 11:42 pm

      we probably do have similar taste! Pai is always a wonderful place to be.

      Reply
  21. Maria says

    02/04/2015 at 2:45 am

    I love your posts! And since I read the articles about Pai I just want to go there like immediately 🙂 in 2 weeks it is gonna be so far 🙂 Could you please share, where I can find this chill terrace from your Pai picture? Wish you lots of fun on your further trips!!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      02/06/2015 at 2:00 am

      Thanks Maria! The photo is at the Container.

      Reply
  22. Kristin says

    02/18/2015 at 11:06 pm

    Glad to hear it’s still like that because I plan to return after 2.5 years away in May!

    Reply
  23. Monse says

    03/17/2015 at 9:31 am

    Hi Kristin!
    I really enjoy your post, I ran into your blog for I will embark on my first solo trip in a couple months. I’ll be heading to Pai and I just love the picture you posted for Pai. Do you mind telling me the place. The one with the beautiful scenery and hanging chairs. Thanks

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      03/19/2015 at 6:59 am

      It’s called the Container 🙂

      Reply
  24. Kate says

    05/25/2015 at 4:57 am

    Hello
    Where in Pai is the photo with the swinging chairs taken? I’d love to go!
    K

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      05/25/2015 at 5:01 am

      It’s called the Container, near Coffee in Love

      Reply
  25. Dan says

    02/29/2016 at 3:40 am

    Hi,

    I will be travelling to southeast Asia in a couple weeks. Where are the hanging egg shaped seats in Pai?

    Thanks

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      03/04/2016 at 6:35 am

      The Container

      Reply
  26. Tripeconomy says

    04/18/2016 at 2:05 am

    Hello, is a great article. I hope sometimes i will visit Asia because is such a great place and i like their food

    Reply
  27. travel fairy says

    06/03/2016 at 1:22 am

    Always wanted to visit Asia. And your post makes me want to make it happen more. Thank you! c”,)

    Reply
  28. Taiss says

    07/13/2016 at 3:12 am

    Indeed, Pai and the Land Split, are quite the Chill places! The snacks and beverages on those hammocks had me feeling like I was just floating on a cloud. I can still taste that yummy tamarind…mmmMMM.

    Reply
  29. Rainiero says

    11/13/2016 at 5:31 am

    Hi Kristin! I’ll be back to Asia next year, and this is absolutely gold to include in my plans, thank you! I know you focus mainly in Southeast Asia, but if you ever decide to change destination, you could try Costa Rica 🙂 Puerto Viejo and Montezuma, even if are touristic places, have that chill vibe that make you question if you should leave everything to just live there! Thanks for the great post!

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/13/2016 at 4:42 pm

      I went through Costa Rica once for a week when I was in my early 20s and hit Belize the year after that for the same length of time. I’d love to move slowly through Central America the way I did through Southeast Asia. I’ve heard it’s a great place for slow travel as well

      Reply
  30. Tiger says

    11/29/2017 at 8:32 am

    Great post and I agree with otres being the best! I lived there for a while but do make sure you choose otres 2 not 1. kampot (a couple of hours) away is also amazing! Found some new gems from this for the next travels though. Great article. Thanks 🙂

    Reply
    • Kristin says

      11/29/2017 at 11:48 pm

      There are 2 now? I figured it had started to grow…

      Reply

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